I was surfing online when I saw Yeshyee's YM status. I stared at it for how many seconds and messaged her a sigh... and so true.
When the world is changing, and when excuses are the substitute for apologies, i think this place is going to crumble. Justifications, rationalizations that makes us think we are right. forgetting that we have hurt other people based on our unsolicited opinion and criticisms. because we always think that everybody is a critic.
I thought criticisms should always come in a constructive form. So we could expect change. make everything better. If criticism is the opposite of that, it would be plainly, logically and simply called as destructive. So i really didnt get the idea that everybody could also destroy someone or anyone through blunt "opinion" (*insert HARD sarcasm on those quotation marks*). And i believe that there is another word for that.
If we are afraid of hearing someone criticize us in the same manner we crticize them, lets be sure that we are FAR more ready so we wouldnt just humiliate ourselves from our blown-up egos. Coz im pretty sure that pop is not even the sound when it bursts.
And as to backstabbers, if we are in a position to choose when youve discovered, defended and amicably confronted one, why do we always come as an insolent self-righteous bitch? I even think its a disorder. coz no matter that you try to resolve something in a manner where you prove youre more matured and well-upbrought after witnessing such crabby behavior, the backstabbing goes on. And for them they clearly do not know what they're doing, like theyre sleepwalking or worse, schizophrenic. as if blackout episodes come with word vomit.
I also thought that patience is a virtue. A virtue with boundary that when you exceed the limit when passing right patience... is tolerance. And we do not get credit by tolerating someone who runs his fingernails down the chalkboard over and over. Like its music to their ears, and yet pretend to regret theyve already done it. Or not.
If everything is not personal, why dont we just give each other the right to baseball bat each other's heads. Then pretend it never happened.
chora ng blog mo!..ang draems!..---"blunt opinion"..ahahaa
ReplyDeletehmmmm ... haaayyyyy! That's life sebyer.
ReplyDeleteang drumz LOL
ReplyDeleteonga mamu e. and thats what sucks.
ReplyDeletesometimes kasi i really find it heartbreaking that when all is too late, what who we are wont be something that we could just turn our backs onto then return to what we think should be.
oo nga talo ka if you cant stomach the bitchnes ofthe world.. pero it is always safe to just shut up if you have nothing nice to say davagh?
ReplyDeleteyes. especially when the things you say doesnt help anything at all.
ReplyDeleteits posts like these that open people up. people do learn from their mistakes though, well, atleast some of them. there's always acceptance for people's flaws, we really don't need to point it out because anger and all the bad vibes does destroy us. dba?
ReplyDeleteits natural that people react. people will still be pointing out things when theyre angry. and everyone has that kind of side whenever he or she is blinded by rage.
ReplyDeletething is, friends dont do that to each other in an embarrassing manner. people will be people. and sometimes, when circumstances happen, that is when we learn what kind of a person are we. and how we define the word "friend" to a friend.
there are also the so-called friends, who could just take advantage of the friendship. friends who are just present whenever they just need something from you. and some who could just take advantage of the chances that anyone has given a lot of times. commit the same mistake, and hurt their friends in a manner that they tend to humiliate them in an unintentional way, as what they say.
hay naku.. basta ako, naniniwala ako na... "if you wanna make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make that change! na-na-nah... na-na-nah...na-na-na-na-ahhhh....." lolz! seriously guys, it's easy to put the blame on other people. but remember... when you point a finger, 4 fingers are pointing back at yah!! ;p lolz!!! let's start with the man on the mirror. let's ask him to make that change.
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i am SUCH a changed person! ahahahahahahahha!! self proclaimed! ;p feeling ko ako si dr. sidney ba yun? yung sa grey's anatomy? lolz!
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ReplyDeletewhos the man on the mirror?
and who the hell is dr.sydney? LOL
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ReplyDeleteyung doctor na parang cheerleader na ayaw nilang lahat kasi sobrang positive!? ;p
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ReplyDeleteand as if we didnt claim nights ago that we were squidward coz we hate spongebob's niceness. alsdkjhaldksjhalsjhladsjhladkjhasd